ITS NOT ABOUT THE WEDDING.

 I love rain, I honestly do but aaargh! I just don't like the mud, the cold and flu that comes with it.However, I have come to realize that cold seasons brings people together, its during such days that you find family members that rarely talk, all cuddled up in the kitchen or around the fire, warming themselves up.

 I am speaking out of experience, just in case you are wondering how I got to know all that. It this morning when I found myself in the kitchen with two of my girls. I call them my girls because they are not just random friends you meet with and forget they ever exist, these are people who have impacted my life in tremendous ways I dint expect when I first knew them. So back to where we were, we were in the kitchen, catching up, and having some chit chat when something popped up. I hope u learn much from it just as I did.

Its every girls dream to walk down the aisle looking all glamorous and adorable that will leave young girls dreaming of their wedding day, and calling upon the Lord to answer their prayers. Yes !Its important and good to look all stunning on your wedding day, I mean its your day. What most people forget nowadays is that, its not about the WEDDING, but the MARRIAGE. That got you off-guard? I thought so, most people want to pull a public stunt and show how they can afford it, how they can throw a lavish wedding for people to eye on , and forget that there is a life after the wedding, a life where people wont be there to help you off set the loans you took, where people wont be there to provide peace in your home when it starts falling apart because you cant agree on how to pay the bills.

This is exactly how christian life is, we forget that its all about our creator,God. Its about His purpose for our life and not about what our friends will think of us, or how people will talk about us. We should stop focusing on people and their ideas, make up our mind and live accordingly to the christian ways of life. Galatians 2.20 "I am crucified with Christ: nevertheless I live; yet not I, but Christ liveth in me: and the LIFE which i now live in the flesh I live by the faith of the son of God, who loved me, and gave himself for me."(KJV).
this should be the verse we apply in our everyday life, live for Christ.

The wedding and the marriage is similar to when one gets born again, what matters is not that day, but the life you live after that day, and so when that day comes, and you stand in front of judgment, you will realize it was never about the wedding, but the marriage.